“At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.”
― Lao Tzu

Embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation with a coaching service that champions every step of your personal, professional, and emotional development. Here, your story is celebrated, your goals are validated, and your identity is respected. Specializing in empowering queer individuals and allies, I combine action-oriented decision making with compassionate support, guiding you towards living your most authentic life. Whether you’re navigating gender identity, exploring relationships and sexuality, or seeking career advancement, find a space here where you’re seen, heard, and inspired to act.

My services warmly welcome individuals across all gender identities, sexual orientations, and backgrounds. For members of the queer community, I offer coaching and guidance tailored to your unique journey of self-discovery, empowering you to embrace and celebrate your most authentic self

Getting started is the hardest part

About Me

Hello, I’m Schala Jay – Your Partner in Empowerment!

At the heart of my coaching practice lies a deep commitment to fostering personal growth, resilience, and self-discovery. As a life coach, volunteer crisis counselor, engineer, and a proud mom of two, I bring a diverse and rich perspective to each session. My engineering background equips me with a problem-solving mindset and an appreciation for the complexity and beauty of structured, yet flexible, approaches to challenges. Meanwhile, motherhood has deepened my capacities for empathy, patience, and unconditional support.

My mission is to guide individuals like you towards realizing their fullest potential, with a particular emphasis on supporting the queer community in navigating the nuanced paths of gender identity, relationships, sexuality, and professional development. My approach is action-oriented and grounded in authenticity: I believe in making decisions that propel you forward, always in alignment with your true self.

Navigating the twists and turns of my own journey has taught me the value of understanding, empathy, and courage. Whether you’re seeking to explore your identity, achieve personal milestones, or simply find your footing in an ever-changing world, I’m here to support you with knowledge, heart, and a commitment to your success. Let’s embark on this journey together, creating a life that not only reflects who you are but celebrates it.

Our pricing

Free 55 Minute Consultation

Free

Let’s have a chat about your goals and aspirations.

Regular 55 minute session

$45

For established clients:
Standard 1 hour session

Extended 110 minute session

$90

For established clients: Extended 2 hour Session

What people are saying

“Working with Schala Jay has been transformative. Their understanding of the challenges unique to the queer community, coupled with a focus on actionable steps, has helped me immensely.”

Elizabeth B.

“Vanity and pride are very different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us.”

Lucy A.

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